Nora Evelyn
Archive for the ‘travel’ Category
Daredevil
Friday, October 14th, 2011Beaches & Cream
Thursday, October 13th, 2011Zip-a-Dee-Doo-Dah
Tuesday, October 11th, 2011Bonjour, Pam!
Monday, October 10th, 2011A rare break
Monday, October 10th, 2011Swimming in the Rain
Monday, October 10th, 2011One of the things Nora and I did while waiting out the record rainfall was head down to the pool for a swim. The water was nice and warm, we had the place pretty much to ourselves, and what does it matter that the sky is opening up above you when the whole point is that you’re playing in the water anyway? (of course there was no lightning. sheesh.)
Meetings with Princesses
Monday, October 10th, 2011I remember being torn as a kid. I wanted to meet Mickey and Donald, but when it came to actually doing it, I was too scared. I wouldn’t approach them. Nora’s algorithm is like this: step 1: charge at them and give them the biggest hug she can. step 2: act shy. step 3: ask them something.
She asked Belle why she was wearing gloves, for example, and Jasmine (& Aladdin) where the monkey Abu was.
Record Rainfall
Monday, October 10th, 2011The rain in Orlando this past Saturday broke a 60 year record for single day rainfall accumulation: 6.16 inches! This beat the previous record of 3.29 inches set in 1954. Sunday was similarly wet and stormy with wind gusts up to 70mph. As you might well imagine, we hid from the weather by donning paper-thin plastic ponchos (courtesy of Grandma and Grandpa) and ignoring the weather.
Cinderella Castle
Monday, October 10th, 2011One really hates to encourage the princess thing. The Disney Princesses, as a brand, offer a unidimensional and frankly unimaginative definition of femininity that is somewhere between infuriating and disappointing. I’m deeply conflicted about exposing Nora to this manipulative and stultifying narrative of what it means to be “a girl” –a view in which being pretty is equivalent to being a good person, ugly people are evil people, and one’s wedding day is the goal and the salvation.
Cinderella Castle is sort of the perfect symbol for the Disney Princess brand. It’s beautiful, it impressively manipulates expectations and perceptual illusions to appear whole and substantial, but ultimately it’s completely fake, doesn’t go very deep, and is nowhere near as important as it appears.
At the same time, though, she eats it up. Disney has tapped-into something I can’t quite understand about my own daughter’s psychology and, deep down, that’s probably what really bugs me about it. My role as a dad here is, it seems to me, just like our role with potato chips or television or a thousand other things that are terrible for her but insidiously delicious: expose her to it, give her room to enjoy it, set limits, try to show her how not to be controlled by external things, and trust that she’ll figure it out when she needs to.

























